Doest it still matter to be a virgin as a woman of God? Is it still a big deal to your future husband if you’re not a virgin anymore? If you’re not a virgin anymore, are you considered a sinner and should you be shameful about it?
Long long time ago, losing a virginity of a woman is like a disgrace, even Joseph (biological father of Jesus) thought of divorcing Mary because she’s conceiving without having a sexual contact with him.
Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.-Matthew 1:19
A woman would really regret losing her virginity especially when she gave it to the wrong person, she might be shameful about herself, she will cry and hoping that she could undo her mistake. But that was already done and even if you’ll cross thru a wire and make some rituals so not to feel guilty, you can never bring back your virginity, not anymore!
For women who are still virgins, good for you! I encourage you to stay virgins until your honeymoon. You can be proud of it and your future husband can be also proud of you but never use this as an insult or never judge those women who made a mistake of giving up their virginity to the wrong guy because they just did it out of love, also some women were rape victims and it’s not their fault, they never hoped for that!
If you’re one of those who really regret and having the burden of guilt and shame, i’m telling you -you don’t have to! You must move on and you may consider these things;
- ASK FOR FORGIVENESS. God loves you, He will never keep a record of how many sins have you committed, He is willing to forgive you.